Be with your other in your freedom. Love the freedom of you other And all that it blossoms into. Be flexible.

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A marriage manual

Be with your other in your freedom.
Love the freedom of your other
And all that it blossoms into.
Be flexible.
Be in the moment.
Be present.
Have no expectations.
Love is as shape-changing as water.
The still pond is beautiful.
Waves wash up on the shore in ever new ways.
Water yields,
Gives away,
Surrounds whatever enters,
and allows it to move on through.
Hold like water.
Love like water.
When water is everywhere it has no goal.
Is the ocean here just to break on our shore?
And if it doesn’t break is there no ocean?

— Harold Dull, Watsu Freeing the Body in Water 2004


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